Alte Friedman
For girls of any age — but especially young girls of color — there are few things more important than a supportive environment where you can test out ideas about who you are and who you want to be. So, we’ve rounded up some excellent organizations around the country (and in some cases, the world) that encourage just that: spaces where girls of color can explore everything from writing and ballet to social justice and STEM, and experience just how magical it is to be a girl.
Teaching Young Girls How to Become Empowered Women
Kamilah Graham is the founder of Power Studios, a nonprofit in Los Angeles that empowers young girls by teaching them how to become strong, resilient women. Graham sees it as helping her young students to “be the stars of their own stories.”
On her organization’s website, she writes, “We are committed to creating opportunities for young women of color, ages 7-17 years old, to develop mental and social strength through our Proaction-Based Programming to achieve goals and create change in their lives and communities.”
Looking to Change the World, Girl By Girl
Graham started Power Studios in 2009 after being inspired by her own moving story. After being raised by parents who worked as addicts, she was separated from her biological father and her young brother, and eventually ended up in foster care.
But things changed for Graham after an inspiring teacher named Ms. Chan took her under her wing and helped her earn admission to Harvard University, where she eventually earned a degree in Public Policy. Today, Graham is a successful writer, speaker, and activist working to change people’s lives.
But her passion for her work as an educator truly began when she enrolled in a master’s program at the University of California, Los Angeles, and learned that more than half of the girls in her class were on psychiatric medication (the national average reaches 26 percent). Graham’s life changed when she met a young woman named Ms. Jackson, an older woman who ran an after-school program called Teen Voices in South Central Los Angeles.
Ms. Jackson taught Graham the concept of mental power, and how to cultivate it in young girls — and that’s exactly what Graham decided to do when she left UCLA. In an interview with The College Reporter, Graham explained what led her to create Power Studios: “I decided that was wrong. Girls needed to not be consumed in the ‘medical model’ of being treated for their illnesses. They needed to be treated with some kind of skill-building skill. If we empowered them that way, then maybe we could cut down on the amount of mental issues they’d have in a lifetime.”
Why It Looks Good on Them
Power Studios has been going strong ever since Graham founded it. The organization now serves hundreds of girls of color, who get to explore the many opportunities available to them, such as literacy, ballet, hip-hop, the visual arts, and more. The vast majority of their activities are volunteer-led, and participant costs are kept low so that students of color can afford to participate.
Power Studios has even been written up in The New York Times and featured on the Latina women’s blog HoyLatina.com. Graham hopes that she can turn Power Studios into her lifelong profession, providing an incredible service for the girls of Los Angeles and beyond.
Graham will never forget the inspiration and example set by someone who was important in her education, and she directs that same inspiration and example to her students. In the words of Graham, “girls can do anything, be anything, and overcome anything.”
Well Said, Mr. Feynman
Hey.
So I was reading a biography of Richard Feynman the other day, and one of the anecdotes from his childhood stuck with me.
As a kid, Feynman had a habit of asking lots and lots of questions. He was even known as “the smart kid who asked too many questions.”
And one day, his father had had enough of it.
As Feynman recounts in Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman, his father said to him:
“Don’t ask so many questions, Richard. Just have faith. When you get to be a big boy, if you wish to be an inventor, a scientist, an explorer or anything of that sort, you can do it. No one is stopping you. But as long as you haven’t done it, you don’t know whether you can do it. So the way to be sure that you can do it is just to try. If it doesn’t work, you can always give it up.”
That always stuck with me, and I came to appreciate it even more once I started my own journey to becoming a writer. I had always been very interested in writing ever since I was a little kid. I loved to read my parents’ books, and I would make up stories as well — stories about dogs,
Well Said, Mr. Feynman
cats, toys, and other kids from my grade. As I got older, I wrote songs, poems, and even short stories.
But I had never tried to write professionally, and the one underlying reason was that I didn’t know if I could. It seemed simple enough: Just try it and find out.
But I didn’t want to embarrass myself.
And so, I never tried. Until I read that passage from Feynman and told myself, “Hey, it’s no big deal. If you really don’t like it, you can stop anytime.” I finally bucked up and tried my hand at writing articles for a local newspaper, and I’ve been doing it ever since — and I have no regrets.
So, coming back to the point, just have the courage to try and find out. Figure out what you’re passionate about and decide the best way you know how to pursue it. The worst possible thing that could happen is that your passion doesn’t work out — but that’s okay, because you can try again. And again. And again.
No matter what, you never know until you try. So, try. Like Feynman says, it’s the only way to find out for sure.
Words from a Wise Woman
Overcoming obstacles in order to pursue your dreams is something a lot of girls deal with. But there’s no better way to get going on your crush or become a leader in your school or community than to turn to the wisdom of the women who have been there before you. Here are some of my favorite quotes that will get you thinking and inspired.
Time to Shake the World
“Dare to dream, for a dream lived out is a dream won” —Diana, Princess of Wales
Dreaming is wonderful. You can dream about anything, like becoming a small business owner, a fashion designer, or an astronaut. Dreaming was
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What I Know for Sure by Oprah Winfrey
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